CHANGE: Time to Move On

Hey guys!

It’s been a while since I’ve posted and I have to admit something: I did not miss the blog.

I started this blog almost a year ago and I thought that this was exactly what I wanted to do. I felt I had the time and the mindset, I was right but I was also wrong.

I don’t love blogging like I thought. I thought because I love to write, this was a perfect match but no. I’ve lost total interest and I realize that my heart isn’t in it. If I’ve learned anything in the last two years, it was to not do anything your heart isn’t in.

I’ve been going back & forth with myself with this issue for about 3 months now. It’s a new year and I don’t want to spend any time doing anything that I don’t love. I need to improve myself and focus.

I should’ve started blogging five years ago or maybe I should start blogging again five years from now..but right now is not the time. I love to write, I love words and painting a beautiful picture with them. However, I’ve realized that with this blog, I’ve been writing what I think people want to read instead of what I want to write.

Some of its been good, some uninteresting and a couple of posts were great. But it’s time to move on. I’m not giving up or being down on myself, I’m simply moving forward to figure out what I truly love, harness my talents, continue to build a beautiful life and moving forward from there.

Thank you all for being a part of my blogging experience & thank you for reading! I’ll always appreciate the love and devotion.

Don’t be ashamed of your sins because they provide life lessons!

Good Luck & Goodbye…for now. Who knows, Maybe I’ll be back to blogging someday.

Stay focused, stay fly & build a beautiful life.






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Golden Girls: 10 Shine Bright Gifts for Your Girlfriends (Under $50)

 It’s holiday season!
Christmas & New Year’s are just around the corner and you’ve gotten gifts from everyone from the kids, your boo and even your boss. But don’t forget your ladies…
Here’s a list of golden fabulousness that will suit every kind of girlfriend you have (and your wallet). From the glamorous girls to the fit girls and even the girlfriend that lives for #manimonday, there’s something for everyone.
Everybody Needs A Little Sparkle..

The Importance of Doing Absolutely Nothing

Most of us lead busy, scheduled and task-filled lives; whether we’re juggling work, kids, relationships, besties and so on. But the majority of women do not know how to relax. I just learned what that actually meant this year and I’m glad that I did. In the States, our idea of relaxation is going out to get hammered and waking up with a mean hangover and dehydrated, dull skin. Yuck. That is not relaxing, it can be fun, but not peaceful and relaxing. Sometimes its totally okay to do next to nothing and unplug from the world & reboot. It’s actually really important that we do from time to time.

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How do you do nothing? Easy.

Set the airplane mode on your phone. Make some tea. Read a book, not on a Nook or iPad, or even a magazine. Spend the day in your pajamas. Find a recipe & throw down in the kitchen. Have sex. Have a low-key Girl’s Night. Build a pillow fort with your kids. Start learning a new language. Write down some personal goals. Take a nap with your boo. Play dress-up in your closet. Watch your favorite movies all day. Play Solitaire. Take a bubble bath. Re-arrange your furniture. Treat yourself to a DIY mani-pedi-facial. Eat chocolate.

There are several ways to detox & take a break from the world.

Embrace it, because your well-being is worth it <3.

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